2 Concealed Ways We Sabotage Intimacy Within The Relationship We Want pt.2

2 Concealed Ways We Sabotage Intimacy Within The Relationship We Want pt.2

Constant Closeness

On the reverse side for this coin is the Stage Five Clinger. The “needy” person who desperately wants love, but never ever seems good adequate to enable anyone to really love them.

Any distance into the relationship causes thoughts that are excruciating being cheated on or abandoned. This space with text messages, phone calls, and everything they can to get the reassurance they need that for that brief moment their partner isn’t there for them so the anxious partner fills.

As a result of the heartbreaking memories of neglect, these individuals usually change who they really are in hopes to be liked, being unsure of that they’re becoming somebody different than the individual their partner fell deeply in love with. Read more